If you’re in the know, you’ll be looking at that hot lady’s body language to try and get a read on your chances tonight. Does that sound complicated? The surprising truth is that it’s really not. You can pick up a textbook on the subject, or you can follow these three easy rules for picking up what she’s putting down.
Is She Watching You?
When you look at a woman’s face, it can be a mask or an open book. From far away it’s hard to tell the difference, but one thing is for sure. If she’s interested in you she is going to check you out hard. Not only that, but she’s going to let you catch her doing it. This is her way of getting you to notice her noticing you. Hopefully this will lead to an approach from you. Once you get up close you can tell if things are going well by the way her eyes look. Keeping them on you obviously means that she’s at least paying attention, but if her pupils are dilated you know that you’ve got her. The brain is programmed to widen the pupils when something is stimulating it so that it can get the whole view on the person or thing. She’ll also have more animated features if you’re doing the right stuff. Women bat their eyelashes, lick their lips, and flare their nostrils slightly when they’re excited. All of this defines female flirting, but they’re all involuntary so you know she’s not faking it.
Is She Leaning In?
While the view is nice, she’s not just leaning in to show you her cleavage. Women will lean toward whatever is interesting to them when they’re sitting at a table or a bar (or anywhere really, there’s not a rule on it). She wants to hear all that you’re saying and a popular way of doing this is to rest her head on her hands. That way she doesn’t look creepy leaning across the table. She will also have her legs crossed toward you. If you’re paying close attention you’ll notice that all of her limbs will be pointing in your direction.
What Does Her Chest Look Like?
Again, we’re not just talking about cleavage here. When a woman is aroused she gets a pink flush across her chest. While this might happen when you’re just talking at the bar, it really gets going when you’re alone. The circulation change in her body will make the area turn a lovely pink. If you see this then you know that you’re heading in the right direction. She can’t make this stuff up.
Naturally we can sort of sense what a person’s body is trying to tell us. But the three special changes that happen to a woman’s body language when she’s into you is a surefire way to tell if she’s interested. Closed off postures like crossed arms and leaning back in her chair say pretty much the exact opposite, so try to avoid those.