Unfortunately, awkward tension is pretty normal for a first date. There’s going to be a lot of it when you’re meeting a woman for the first time in person, too. Awkward tension can be funny and easy to get through. In some cases, though, this type of tension can persist and become worse and worse. There are ways to ease the tension and transform it into something else. And hey, if your date is gorgeous and there’s definitely a vibe between the two of you, why not take all that awkward tension and turn it into something awesome, like sexual tension?
Be Willing to Laugh
First dates are always going to have an awkward edge to them. It’s unavoidable and something you’re going to have to contend with. Being aware of this can make it easier to deal with. If you’re willing to laugh about awkward conversation and actions you can strike a connection easier with your date than if you chose to dwell on what was happening, making it even more awkward. Women will want a man who can make them feel at ease even if there’s some tension which is why it’s so important to be willing to laugh at your own mistakes. Once a woman begins to feel more relaxed and comfortable with you, and if there’s a spark between you both, you can work towards building sexual tension.
We’re not saying you should tell her up front that you want to sleep with her at the end of the night but you can let her know you’re very interested in her sexually in other direct ways. A lot of awkward tension stems from not knowing how you feel about each other sexually. At the end of the night you may both be feeling weird and uptight not knowing what the other wants. If you’re interested but you don’t want to rush it, tell her that you’d love to get intimate but you want to savor the wait. Or if you want to get her into bed right then and there, tell her you find her incredibly sexy. Once she knows that you want what she wants the tension will transition from awkward to sexual, which is exactly what you want.