Sometimes you just can’t control yourself when there’s a hot woman around. It could be at church, in the grocery store, or even at work. When you’re working, it’s a very tight line that you’ve got to straddle. Unlike most places, you aren’t you here. So how can you let her know that you’re into her without having the boss fire you?
Women aren’t stupid, and they are by far the better sex when it comes to subtle hints. So throw down a few of your own. When you’re talking to her, look like you are the most comfortable guy in the world. No, don’t pull up a chair and flop on it or anything, but when you stand with your shoulders relaxed and a slight lean you will look the part. Being physically comfortable shows that you are confident and don’t get fazed easily. The same goes for your eyes. Relaxed eyes that hold hers are a sure sign of being unafraid. Confidence is a major turn-on for ladies, and the more you’ve got without seeming cocky, the better. Flicker your eyes to and from her lips to her eyes. She’ll pick up the signal that you’re definitely looking at her features without coming off as too overbearing or sexual.
Say Her Name
Most people pay with credit or debit cards nowadays, so when she hands it over or signs something, be sure to say her name. It will feel weird since strangers don’t often do that. But it will show her that you’re paying attention to her and expressing a personal interest. Now, don’t start spouting out her home address or anything like that, just her first name will do.
If being funny comes naturally, then you’re in luck. Women love a guy who can make them laugh. By taking whatever it is the two of you are saying and turning into something flirty and fun, you’re far more likely to end up getting her number.
Even though you’re at work, talk to the woman like she’s a human and not just a customer. Having her run through your line with all of your twinkling eyes and smiles will do no good. She won’t remember you at all. When you ask how her day is, really mean it. And when she asks you tell her the truth. “I can’t wait until it’s over” is very cliché, so try something like “well I can say that it’s going better now” Implying that she’s making your day better will make her blush and feel good.
Always Try to Help Her
Whether you’re working retail or the bar, when you see this lady walk through the door you do everything you can to help her with what she needs. The more often you get to see her the more she’ll get to know you. That’s the real key to taking anything beyond flirting. As a regular you can chat and maybe even ask her out sometime.