Pretend to Be Clueless about Your Flattering
Women can tell right away when we’re flattering them on purpose. That’s because every time we flatter them, we usually stick to how attractive they are. While women do like to hear that they look good, they hear it from men all the time. This means that whatever you’re telling her is just going to become muddled up with whatever ten other guys are telling her. You have to make sure that the way you flatter her stands out from the ways typical men would flatter her.
If you do want to comment on how attractive she is, don’t tell her that she’s sexy or that she looks like some attractive actress who everyone knows of. Instead, tell her that she looks like a certain model or lesser-known actress. This will require her to look up the actress or model and she’ll be impressed that you actually complimented her. She will also want to do the same and when she does, either reply with how flattered you are or deny that you could ever look like someone so attractive. That’s another thing you want to be able to do, don’t hesitate to state when you think another man is good looking. Women love that for some weird reason.
Become the Guy Who Blushes and Stumbles over His Words
When you are a confident and take control type of man, women expect you to make the first move. When you are the shy and nervous type of man, women want to corrupt you. We don’t know what it is, but there’s something in her nature that makes her want to turn you from a nervous wallflower to confident masterpiece.
Even if you’ve never had a problem speaking with women, when you’re hooking up with a woman, try to appear shy around her because you think she’s gorgeous and a little bit intimidating. Don’t play the role so well that she thinks she would be too much for you, but do play it well enough that she wants to help you get over your shyness. An even better scenario is that she wants to do naughty things with you because of your shyness.
Whatever you do, never admit that you were faking the entire thing. You also want to make sure that you never appear to be fully confident no matter how many times you hook up. Keep letting her think she is teaching you and reap the benefits.