There aren’t too many things worse than sending a message to a woman you’re interested in and then not receiving a reply back. While you cannot always predict who is going to reply back to you before you send them a message, you can still take some time to better your chances of getting a reply back. There are some things that men do that makes it so that most women will never reply back to them, and if you’ve found that women are ignoring your messages or aren’t sending you any, you may be one of those men. If you want women to start replying back to your messages, try changing up your initial messages with useful tips and tricks to better your chances of returned replies.
Can the Small Talk Help?
When you send a message to women online, you want to make sure that you aren’t using chat speak. Type out the full word and use correct spelling and grammar. You don’t have to be an English major, but don’t make her think that you’re illiterate to the point where she feels like you won’t be worth her time. You also want to make sure you give her something to respond to.
Don’t send her messages with one simple question that only requires a one-word response. Instead, take some time to read over her profile and ask her questions based off of what you read. She’ll be impressed that you took time to read her profile and will feel a sense of obligation to reply back to you, which is when you can lay on the charm if you don’t have a strong enough profile to make her interested.
Don’t Try to Guilt Trip Her or Tell Her How Sexy She Is
When you’re sending messages to women, make sure you don’t sabotage your chances of getting a reply back by trying to guilt trip her into returning your message. Writing things like, “no one ever really replies back whenever I send a message…” or “I know you’re too hot to even think about dating me, but…” is not going to win you any dates. We’ve found that women pretty much hate these types of messages because you’re focusing on her body and trying to guilt her into feeling sorry enough for you to like you.
Instead, send her messages that don’t focus on how attractive she is. If you do want to compliment her about her physical appearance, try complimenting her eyes or her sense of style. These are two compliments that aren’t heavily used in the online dating world, and she’ll be surprised to receive them. You also want to sound confident when you message her. Don’t mention how many women don’t reply back to your messages since this makes you sound bitter and needy. Just send your message, but be charming and easygoing, so that she won’t have any hang ups about replying back to you.