The first time you are with someone new, it is important to watch out for what you are doing. This is the time when you are supposed to impress her with all the ways you are the right choice out of all the other guys she could have chosen. Don’t crush your opportunity by doing something boneheaded like turn her off. If you are thinking there is no way you can do this, you’re not alone. The dating sites are filled with guys who thought they could do no wrong. In order to make sure you are the guy who impresses her, make sure you pay attention to your body functions, you are not a pompous ass, and you put the cell phone away! Follow these suggestions and you will be in the running for just about anything else you want to do.
Watch Your Body Functions
Don’t Be a Pompous Ass
Girls like a guy with self-confidence, but they hate a guy who is too full of himself. This is a fine line between love and hate you have to thread like a master or you will be out on your butt quick. The main thing to do is to avoid talking down to anyone you don’t know. If you know something, you don’t have to flaunt it just to look cool. Instead, show a little humility and allow her to tell you about it. If you look like a know-it-all, she will decide you know how to find yourself another date and ditch you. You need to be smart without being a smartass and be intelligent without knowing it all.
Put Your Cell Phone Away
Your cell phone may be a central part of your life on any given day, but while you are on a date, it is time to put the cell phone away. You do not exactly have to shut your phone off, but if you’re on your phone more than you’re talking to her, this is a problem. Skip texting your buddies to let them know how the date is going, check the score of the game when you get home (unless she asks you to check and then score), and no need to update your Facebook status. Focus on the girl you’re with and she will focus on you when you are asking to go back to her place.