Many will tell you that they love a guy who takes charge. However, some of those same women also love guys who appear shy, nervous, and awkward. More often than not, though, these women aren’t as willing to mention how much they love these types of guys and the reason why may surprise you. We’ve found that some women feel perverted and naughty when they admit that they like shy and awkward men because they want to corrupt them. While these women may pretend that they’re waiting for a knight in shining armor, what they really want is for someone who seems harmless and willing to let her do whatever she wants.
Breaking Eye Contact
Playing the shy and awkward role is easy. There are several things you can do to appear shy that will immediately make her want to start figuring out ways to corrupt you. One of the best things when you’re first starting out with practicing your new shy and awkward personality is to stare down at your feet every now and then when the two of you make eye contact. You want to make sure you aren’t doing this every time the two of you look at each other as it will make her think you don’t have any confidence, but every now and then is fine. It will make her think that she’s more dominant than you and this will give her confidence to start making her move.
Blushing and Nervous Smiles
If you’re capable of making yourself blush on demand, then you’re definitely capable of convincing her that you’re the shy type. Whenever she compliments you or the two of you share eye contact, either blush or smile nervously and look away. Believe it or not, this helps to greatly boost her self-confidence and she will link you to making her feel good about herself, which can only work out in your favor.
When you are on a date with her, you don’t ever want to appear like you’re too confident. While confidence is attractive to women, we had to learn the hard way that too much confidence is a turn off to them. When we’re too confident, women tend to think that we’re too cocky and never satisfied.4 You definitely don’t want her thinking that way about you. If she does, you can cancel that second date ever happening.
You should also remember to keep up that shy and awkward role throughout the time you are dating her, but to slowly and subtly start letting your more confident nature shine through. She will think that she’s the cause of your growing self-confidence. You want this to happen because she will start feeling an even stronger connection to you. She will also begin to trust you more.
Regardless of what tips and tricks you use to make her think you’re the shy and awkward type, it’s important to not let her think she can walk all over you. You want her to want to corrupt you because you’re cute when you’re shy and nervous, not to treat you like you’re worthless. If you start to feel like she’s trying to take advantage of you, put your foot down.