Dating is all about keeping her interested. If she starts to lose interest in you, it’s only a matter of time before she stops answering your calls and starts pretending that she never received your text messages. Even if you seem to be doing everything right, there could have been something you did in the past that made her feel like you were no longer worth getting to know. You may not even be aware of what that thing is. All you know is that one day she was interested in you and the next day she doesn’t want to have anything to do with you. When this happens, you need to step back and take a look at the things you’ve done. There is a high possibility that you could have unknowingly did something that caused her to lose interests in you.
Don’t Speak Over Her
Are you one of those guys that always has to get your words out before the next person can begin speaking? If you are, it could be one of the main reasons that she’s no longer interested in you. When you are having a conversation and she interrupts you to comment to whatever you’re saying, do not raise your voice and continue whatever it is you’re saying. You may not think it’s a big deal, but to her, it’s one of the rudest things you can do. It’s also petty and pretty lame. When you speak over a woman, it makes her think that you’re too controlling or too aggressive to be in a relationship and she will automatically start losing interest as you as the night progresses.
You also want to make sure that you aren’t interrupting her too much when she’s speaking. Sure, it’s okay to interrupt her when she’s talking if you want to comment about something she just said, but don’t finish her statements or stories for her. Even if you already know, let her talk. If you interrupt her to show her that you already know something, it may embarrass her and will leave an awkward silence that the two of you do not want.
Get over Your Hang Ups
Give simple answers when she asks you about your ex. Do not go into too many details about your previous relationship. Show that you’re interested in her and that your past experiences are in your past, but do it in a way that seems sincere and not like you’re trying to hide something from her.